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Developmental Milestones by Stage

Understanding where children are emotionally helps us respond in ways that support, not shame, their growth. Here are key milestones for infancy, toddlerhood, and early childhood, along with what they tell us about a child's social-emotional world.
Infancy
Toddlerhood
Early Childhood

Infancy (0-12 months)

Milestones:
- Begins forming secure attachment with caregivers.
- Starts to recognize emotions in others and mirror facial expressions.
- Shows preference for familiar people, responds to comfort.
A securely attached infant is more likely to grow into a child who feels safe exploring the world and forming relationships with others.

Toddlerhood (1-3 years)

Milestones:
- Expresses basic emotions (Joy, anger, fear).
- Begins using words to describe feelings.
- Starts parallel play and early cooperative behavior.

This is a messy, emotional time, and that's okay. Toddlers are learning self-regulation, not failing at it.

Early Childhood (3-5 years)

Milestones:
- Develops empathy and understanding of others' perspectives.
- Begins regulating emotions with support.
- Participates in group play, shares and follows basic rules.

At this age, kids are watching everything adults do. Our words and actions become their SEL curriculum.